Second chances

By Mike Hall, March 1, 2020

A not so spry older man had a dream last night

In it, he was sitting alone in a park on

an unseasonably warm winter day

Spring was six weeks away so there were

no robins yet, just pesky little brown and gray

sparrows intent on eating as much as they could

An older man ambled by and asked if

he might share a seat on the bench as a large

black crow began squawking overhead

The gentleman’s name was Cyrus…

a bit of a throwback name but since it

was clear that both of us were in our eighth

decade of life, it wasn’t that peculiar at all

He chuckled when learning that I preferred

to be called Cowboy instead of my

given name of Morris

Cyrus asked if there were any life lessons

I’d learned along the way and I hesitated

for a long time before replying

‘I’ve learned that life will knock you down

but turn around and offer a second chance

to square the score if you can pick yourself

up and say yes to life

I’ve learned that some people will always

see the cup as half empty as if they thrive

on the poor, poor, pitiful you look and words

that acquaintances throw their way. It took a long

time to realize that they were stuck like an old pickup

truck in a ditch in Leoti, Kansas…and that I didn’t

have a chain strong enough to extricate them

from their misery

For the longest time, I put my hopes in a dream

that never came to fruition and it was…for far too

long, as if someone had hit me upside the head

with a sledgehammer

But as I came to my senses, a second chance was

dumped in my lap and a natural curiosity began to

grow that maybe Someone was looking out for

this weary and often bumbling traveler

I eventually learned that if one slows down

occasionally…and if they breath deeply enough…

and slowly enough, that a sense of all is well- this too

will pass- I am with you always surety is not just present

but all encompassing

And all along I’d thought that it was a me game

of creating this or that…riding high in the good times

and shaking an angry fist to the heavens when

things didn’t work out according to my plan

He showed this often ungrateful mess that

there is…for everyone, a grander plan

fashioned by One who knows us most intimately…

Who sees beyond the faults, the foibles, and the

follies to an end game so much higher than

the me and mine absorption that surely is

a ditch of its own

Cyrus had a dinner date and we shook hands

as he got ready to leave

‘Seems like you’ve learned a lot young man and

here’s hoping you don’t keep it to yourself…

for that would truly be a disservice to the

Creator of second chances.’